A Flight to Remember: Meeting Maimiti from Tahiti, a Polynesian Girl’s First Journey

a group of people wearing tahitiian clothing and standing on a beach

Travel has a way of surprising us—sometimes with breathtaking sights, other times with unforgettable encounters. My story from May 1996 is one such memory, a moment that stayed with me long after the plane touched down. The Young Polynesian Girl and Her First Flight It all started at Faa’a Airport in Tahiti. The manager of …

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A Foreign Son-in-Law Must Be Found – How I Almost Became Someone’s Ticket Out of the Dowry Game in Sri Lanka

Between 1991 and 1994, I traveled to Sri Lanka three times. When you travel solo, it’s almost inevitable that you’ll meet locals. On my second trip, I somehow found myself promoted to the role of prospective son-in-law. Caught in the Rain—and the Family Web One day, as I was taking a walk, I got caught …

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Beating the time between the travels: Creating My Own Tropical Escape at Home

a small gazebo in a park

When I was younger, the months—or even years—between trips to somewhere warm, exotic, and tropical felt endless. I’d spend days dreaming of the next escape. That wait could feel like an eternity, especially as winter stretched on in Germany and the only palm trees in sight were the ones in travel brochures. But as any …

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What Makes the Philippines So Different from the Rest of Asia?

Kadayawan Festival, Davao City, Philippines

If you’ve ever set foot in the Philippines, you might’ve felt a little jolt of culture shock—not for the usual reasons, but because this island nation feels so different from its Southeast Asian neighbors. After living here for more than 13 years, I sometimes have to remind myself that the Philippines is technically part of …

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