Is Traveling Still Worth It?

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After almost 35 years of being on the road—planes, trains, and the occasional tuk-tuk—I find myself asking a question I never thought I would: is traveling still worth it? It’s not that I’ve fallen out of love with discovering new places, far from it. Vietnam and Cambodia recently gave me some unforgettable adventures, the kind …

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A Gentle Note About Friendships, Boundaries, and Letting Go

Sometimes the hardest messages are the simplest ones. This is me trying to put a difficult moment into words with honesty, kindness, and a little bit of hope for what comes next. Friendship isn’t about never disagreeing; it’s about feeling seen even when perspectives clash. When misunderstandings pop up, it can sting more than the …

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Beach Clean-Up on Tetiaroa: My Experience in Paradise with a Problem

Note: This article recounts an experience from September 2001—24 years ago. Back in September 2001, I found myself on Tetiaroa for the fifth time. By then, my annual visits had made me something of a regular—enough that I’d gotten to know a member of the Brando family, I call him here Tama. We’d fish together, …

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A Flight to Remember: Meeting Maimiti from Tahiti, a Polynesian Girl’s First Journey

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Travel has a way of surprising us—sometimes with breathtaking sights, other times with unforgettable encounters. My story from May 1996 is one such memory, a moment that stayed with me long after the plane touched down. The Young Polynesian Girl and Her First Flight It all started at Faa’a Airport in Tahiti. The manager of …

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A Foreign Son-in-Law Must Be Found – How I Almost Became Someone’s Ticket Out of the Dowry Game in Sri Lanka

Between 1991 and 1994, I traveled to Sri Lanka three times. When you travel solo, it’s almost inevitable that you’ll meet locals. On my second trip, I somehow found myself promoted to the role of prospective son-in-law. Caught in the Rain—and the Family Web One day, as I was taking a walk, I got caught …

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